Early detection is key to breast cancer survival

As my fingers unclasp my white satin bra I feel the chill of the cold air in the room against my skin. The chill sends a nervous sensation up my spine and I can visualize the facial expressions of those middle-aged women in the waiting room who looked me up and down when I walked in. I am sure they wondered what I was doing there, since I am only 34.

They may imagine I’m here to keep my mom company. Yet, I am by myself. I stand alone, with the same fears, concerns, and unease they have, which fully overcomes me in the mammogram room.

My mother´s legacy: breast cancer

What these women don’t know is that I have been here before. I have been here with my mom, when at the young age of 47 she was faced with the cancer that led to her mastectomy. My family and I were by her side when she faced it with strength and determination. I recall the day she told my siblings and me that a part of her would be removed. My answer was, “I love you with or without breasts.”

What I didn’t tell her was that I was scared, I feared not having her in my life and losing her to her fight against cancer.

Mammograms are a must for me now

Every time I undergo a mammogram, all of these thoughts run through my mind: the reality that cancer has no age, no gender, and no color. According to the information provided in the Susan G. Komen for the Cure website, it is the most common type of cancer in Hispanic/Latina women. I started having regular mammograms when a few years ago I had a lump and a biopsy. It turned out to be nothing, but because of my mom´s history, I need to screen more often than other women my age.

Early detection is key

There are steps to help reduce the risk of course. But, what many don’t realize is that cancer can happen to anyone and it can take a life in a short time or even at a more excruciating, slower pace.

Breast self-exams can aid in early detection / Photo: Shutterstock

I understand the fear of the women in the waiting room, and of anyone who has come in contact with this deadly disease; the thought of the unknown, of that machine invading your body and yet determining what just might be. I can’t even look while the exam is taking place.

You try and make friendly conversation as someone you have never seen before touches you in places that only an intimate companion would. As a person who has seen this disease take over the body of a loved one, I brush off those thoughts and know this is all for a good cause. Many cancers are undetected due to failing to do a self- exam or not following up with annual appointments.

I did my part. The rest is beyond my control

The images of the women in the waiting room cross my mind again as I walk out of the clinic. The intense look of worry on their faces, and the thought of them waiting for days for word from their doctor. Will they be diagnosed? Will they survive? Will they be as lucky as my mom, who is alive and well, as she undergoes yearly mammograms? Or will they die, as my dad did, 12 years ago, of colon cancer …

What I do know is that I walk out comfortable and strong knowing that I have done my part, and whatever else happens from here on, is beyond my control.

What steps will you take to become more aware of any type of cancer?

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  • Jeannette Kaplun

    Eileen, I agree that early detection is key and had my first mammogram at 35. However, many women are being bombarded with conflicting messages in which newer guidelines say mammograms aren´t necessary in young women. I´m so sorry your dad lost his battle with cancer. This disease does not spare any family. May you continue to be active in your road to staying healthy. As you say, you´ve done your part and the rest is not within what you can control.

  • Eileen Carter Campos

    Jeannette,

    Thank you for your comment. I agree with you 100% with the misleads of being too young to get a mammo. Women must stand up and DEMAND them!!! Take their lives into their own hands.

    Thanks again sweetie!

  • A cutillo

    Eileen i finally got on here to read your article and as I knew it it was amazing as i know whatever you write is. You write with such feeling and this article gave me chills reading it. It is so true that you did your part and the rest is fate. Thank god your mom caught it in time and she is ok. It\’s so scary. Thank u be ause reading your amazing article / story made me realize I need to make an appointment for my first one. I hope yours went well and always wil. Xoxo

  • Eileen Carter Campos

    Anne,

    Thank you so much. It means a lot that you got the chance to read it with your busy schedule and all. I am happy that this post reminded you to take care of your appointment.
    I thank you for your sweet words—touching!
    xoxoxoxo

  • Laura Carbonell

    Thank you!!! Sorry you had to go through all of this.
    Abrazo!!

  • Laura Carbonell

    This just was the right thing to read today.

  • http://twitter.com/ILYQuintero I.L.Y.

    This is so important amiga!! TY for raising awareness!!!